Sex and porn

I asked the boys, about 40 of them, aged from 16-18 if they'd ever watched porn, and they all laughed. 'Shall I take that as a yes?' I asked, and there were further chuckles and nodding heads all round. You see, as the school nurse, I'd been asked to talk to the senior boys about 'sex and all that sort of stuff.' With such vague guidelines, I chose to talk about an area that has been coming an every increasing concern. 'Do you like it?' I asked, and no one said outright they liked it. 'Do you think it's healthy or harmful?' They all said it's harmless, because the participants were consenting adults. So I asked them what's their favorite type of porn, and the answers were varied, although how young blondes, and horny teens topped the list of favorites. 'Was that 'horny teen' legal?' I asked, and the laughter died away. They'd never thought of that before, they'd also never thought of sex-slavery, but now wasn't the right time to talk about that, as I felt they would stop listening if I started lecturing. Although Ivan, one of the Russian lads raised his hand in protest. 'But sir, I only watch MILF porn.' The room erupted, and merits of MILF porn were briefly discussed. I decided to get personal. I asked them to raise their if they wanted to get married and have kids one day, and they all raised their hands. 'So what age is it okay for your son to watch porn?' They paused, giving it serious thought, before generally deciding that around 14yrs old is good. 'And what age is it okay for your daughter to watch porn?' I was greeted with silence. No one wanted their daughter to ever watch porn, because deep inside of them, they know porn is not good, and they know it is degrading to women, regardless of consent. We talked about other things, from relationship to STD's, but only briefly, because there's only so much you can teach them in one-off, one hour session. But I wasn't there to teach, but to make them think.

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I'm now an author

It's been a long time, but I've been busy - I wrote two books and they're out now. You can love them or hate them, but you won't know until you buy them. Confessions of a male nurse - by Michael Alexander Confessions of a school nurse - by Michael Alexander Look them up on amazon or itunes. I have to confess, I don't even know how to create a link on my blog, I'm nearly computer illiterate. But I do l ike to write, and I hope you'll take a look at my work. This is me, the good, the bad and the ugly. I hope I don't come across as too ugly, but there's always a risk when you bare your soul.

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